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Sunday, 21 June 2026

Memories – A Look at Our Days in Banket Street

Each person had a job to do in the house.

Mom went back to work as a seamstress specialising in beadwork.

Aunty Maureen worked in an office, I think.

Uncle Bill was a blacksmith and had to leave very early to catch a train to his work. His job was to stoke the fire in the kitchen, which warmed water in the geyser for the rest of the family. He also stoked the fire in the stove so that it was ready for breakfast.

Uncle Len and Uncle Doug were in charge of the floor. I remember Uncle Len had a lovely system. He would slip his foot in the strap of the polishing brush, sit on a chair, or the couch, and rotate his foot with the brush.

I can’t remember what Ken and Bob did. They were the youngest of the boys, so they probably had a lighter workload. The girls, I think, generally helped in the kitchen. My job was dusting in the lounge. I know that Joan was my official babysitter.

Ma was in charge of the kitchen. My fondest memories of her are her sitting at the kitchen table. I remember a lot of us sitting around the table helping to prepare the veggies. My worst job was shelling peas. Remember, this was before frozen veggies became the thing. When you picked up a pea in its shell, you had no idea what was ensconced inside. You would crack the pea by holding it by the “seams” and squeezing until it popped open. Then you would scoop the peas out with your thumbnail. All too often, that thumbnail would scoop up a juicy, fat green worm. You learned to look before scooping. This brought up a distaste for shelling peas. So glad to have the frozen ones now. But sitting around the table with other family members brought on a lovely sense of family. Ma would often have to reprimand us for sneaking those sweet morsels into our mouths. She would say, “whistle while you work”, then she would know we are giving up all the peas for the family dinner.

I have a vague memory of an ice box, but I also remember stocks being bought in on an almost daily basis. I loved the spectacle of the Indian guy bringing his horse and cart full of veggies and fruit while his horse left a steaming reminder of the visit. In watermelon season, Ma would issue instructions to have a tiny triangle cut into the watermelon to check for the white. There had to be a thick piece of white for her konfyt. (Interestingly, I have just learnt that we throw away a valuable piece of the watermelon as the white has some amazing properties)

Ma was also in charge of the washing machine, which was housed on the first landing by the bathroom. With sixteen people in that house, washing was probably a daily task. The machine was a big barrel standing on four legs. I think it was filled via a hosepipe. I’m not sure where the water went afterwards, maybe through the window to the garden below, or maybe pumped into the bath. Straddled across the top of the machine was the wringer. I loved to watch pillowcases threaded through with the open end first. As the pillow case moved through the manually operated wringer, a bulge developed, which got bigger and bigger while it held water and air as the pillow case moved through the wringer. Oh! The delight when the bulge entered the wringer and air and water exploded with a satisfying pop.

 

Sunday, 16 February 2025

Red Alert!

Jean sat in her stalled car. Nothing seemed to help. The car just wouldn’t start. It was 7pm and most people were probably still at home or had already reached their destination.

The road home had a particularly bad stretch which was normally quiet even when the rest of the city was in traffic jam status.

She dropped her head onto her steering wheel while she berated herself for being so careless.

Mike was always telling her to a) Be aware of your surroundings and b) Make sure that there are no emergency lights on her dashboard.

Now she was really aware of the vulnerability of her situation but how could she have known that that weird red light was a red alert that something was seriously wrong. She had decided that Mike would know what to do when she got home. But now…?

Her cell phone was in the boot but she could normally uses her car’s Bluetooth to make calls but now there was nothing – her car was not co-operating. It was dead and even when she turned the ignition key there was still nothing. She hoped her hazards would work.

If she decided to make a call, she would have to get out the car, walk around to the back, open the boot, and dig around in her voluminous bag to find her phone.

She looked all around – all seemed safe. She tentatively opened her door and it banged into a man who had come out of nowhere.

Now she was scared and quickly closed her door and locked it.

The man was prancing about outside, dancing around her car muttering strange sounds. She saw that he was in full African regalia. Maybe he was a witch doctor but what did he want from her?

Suddenly he rapped on her window, indicating that she must try to start the car. The car obeyed and started. She looked around to thank the man but he had disappeared as quickly and silently as he had arrived.

She wasted no more time and allowed the car to limp back home.

When she related her experience, Mike laughed at her and said that the “medicine man” had done nothing. That was the way of modern cars. Give it a rest and it will limp back home. But Jean knew deep down that the “medicine man” had helped her.  


Sunday, 9 February 2025

 


Becoming Me

The sun was glinting on the sea causing the water to give off an almost blinding glare. As my eyes grew accustomed to the glare, I cast my eyes around. The ship was fully booked but the deck that I had discovered was not used by many people – most used the “social deck”. The one that was at the top of the ship. The one that had the pool, deck chairs, and ready refreshments. I needed the solitude that my quiet deck gave me.

I stood by the railing, clutching the urn. The urn that contained the happiest moments of my life. The urn that contained the saddest moments as well as the angry moments.

As I looked at the urn a feeling of peace started to descend on me. Soon I would rid myself of all the unwanted emotions in my body. Soon I would be ready to start my life as a different person with a different name and an identity that I could live with. Sarah Brown would be gone. Jill Inverness would step off the boat in Italy, ready to start a new life.

I opened the urn.

It was filled with my thoughts, a few material possessions, and my writing.

I looked around to make sure that no one was around and scrabbled in my bag for the lighter that would obliterate my old life. I placed the urn on the deck and slowly lowered the lighter into the urn as I ignited it. It was fascinating to watch the flames eating up my old self.

When the flames had died and my old life was now ashes, I lifted the urn above the railings and emptied Sarah Brown into the ocean.

Sunday, 3 April 2022

Piccadilly Circus

London Piccadilly Circus Soho - Free photo on Pixabay

I have heard that if you stand in Piccadilly Circus for long enough you will meet someone you know. Well I sincerely hoped that I would see Bob as we had planned this meeting last year already. Yeah we had chatted in between times, reminding each other of this anticipated “date”.

Bob and I had met at school. He arrived as an exchange student in my gr 11 year. I was asked to show him the ropes. An English guy arriving complete with British accent had thrown all of us girls into a tizzy. Brenda lorded it over us as her family was Bob’s host family.

Bobs complexion, hair colour and accent reminded me of my major crush, Prince Harry. I silently drooled over the prospect of showing him around. We had a bit of a fling but he was more interested in sport and became quite a  favourite with the rugby guys.

Now I was meeting him again. As I stood nervously waiting I realised I really didn’t know much about him. Of course we had chatted about college etc. but never anything meaningful.

My world fell apart as I saw him walking up to me hand in hand with the most handsome guy I had ever seen.

© Vera Alexander

 

 

Friday, 18 February 2022

My Get A Grip Moment

 Moore, Okla., May 22, 2013 -- Tornado damaged classroom in the Tower  Elementary school in Moore, Oklahoma. An F5 tornado struck the area on May  20th, causing widespread destruction. Andrea Booher/FEMA -


I stood looking at my classroom in total horror. The kids had virtually exploded. The furniture had exploded. There was mess everywhere. Sandwiches mixed with books. Twinkies wrapped around pens and pencils. Paper! Paper was everywhere.

How did this happen? How did I lose such control? This was my second week of teaching and the kids were monsters. My dream job was quickly becoming a nightmare. The kids had escaped and were rampaging around the school disturbing all the other more disciplined classes.

I sat at my desk. Head in hands trying desperately to hold back the tears. I felt a hand on my shoulder and looked up. The headmistress stood there. I tried to get up but her gentle touch forced me back down onto the seat. I glanced at the door and saw my monsters calmly standing quietly outside. The head moved to the door and closed it. She pulled a chair up to the table.

“You really need to get a grip and teach the kids that you are the boss not them. I’ll help you today but you need to be firmer. You are not their friend. You are the one in charge.”

She went to the door and held it open until the last quiet, responsive kid had entered.

“Stand next to your desks. Look around you. Are you really that barbaric? You will stay in every afternoon this week under my supervision and you will clean every classroom and corridor on this floor. Windows, lights, everything.”

Horror appeared on all faces as the headmistresses words sunk in.

Wednesday, 17 November 2021

Taxing Time

 


Christmas is around the corner. This is the time of year when everyone takes a breather, even if for only a couple of days. Even those who are not Christians benefit from the pause at the end of the year.

I often wonder why the tax season coincides with this wind down as tax season winds me up.

I am an artist and financials scare me and send me scurrying away from the papers and paperwork.

Work also reaches a taxing time. Everyone wants their stuff finalised before the silly season.

So apart from the government taxing you, your feelings and emotions are taxed.

Where did the time go? Too much to do and this year you said you would be ready.

Christmas decorations have been up since October, reminding you that your feelings, your time and your wallet are all going through a taxing time.

© Vera Alexander

Saturday, 6 November 2021

The Green Door

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Joe was walking his dog down the streets of the village. Suddenly Buster started pulling him off the beaten track. Joe saw that there was a cluttered path leading off to the right. He battled through the bushes and undergrowth that were fighting to encroach on the path. Buster pulled him, walking faster than was comfortable for Joe.

Suddenly they reached a small clearing. A long, high wall extended into the scrub on either side of a green door. There was no house, no other signs of buildings apart from the high walls.

Buster pulled Joe to the door and sat outside, barking, looking at Joe, and then sitting with tongue lolling out the side of his mouth. Joe extended his hand and grasped the doorknob. He was surprised that it turned, and with much creaking, the door opened a bit, enough to let Buster dart away from Joe as he ran, yelping in excitement through the gap, but Joe held on firmly.

Joe peered through the door. Brush, weeds, and shrubs prevented the door from opening fully. As Joe was trying to remove some of the obstacles, Buster took advantage of Joe’s lack of concentration and pulled away from Joe as he belted through the doorway, yelping in excitement.

Joe yelled “Buster! Come here!” but Buster ignored him.

Joe muttered “So naughty, so unlike him.” as he pushed his way through the debris at the door.

Joe looked up and was amazed at the secret garden in front of him. Buster was lapping water from the shore of a calm, blue lake. Dragonflies were darting over the surface of the lake, almost looking like fairies. Butterflies and bees fluttered from flower to flower. Birds twittered, undisturbed by the human and dog who had invaded their privacy. Joe gasped in wonderment. Whose garden was it? It had a solitary air about it, unkempt but yet beautiful. A sense of calmness surrounded Joe as Buster ran back to him and ploughed into his legs, sending Joe sprawling in the sea of flowers. Buster darted around him and on top of him.

Dog and master rolled around, Joe laughing and Buster’s eyes sparkling. Soon the game was over, and Joe lay on his back, absorbing the peace and tranquillity while Buster sprawled beside him in total contentment.